Relationship Goals

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For the most part of my teenage years, I have never been in a serious and long term relationship. Sometimes, one sided and most times, just for fun. When I reach 20, that is when I realized, I'm tired.

Working online is stressful. It is more stressful if at the end of your day, you don't have someone to spend time with. We call it boring... very boring.

That is when I decided to move to Cebu. Apart from having issues with my siblings, my reason of moving is secretly hoping I would meet someone I can be with. Kinda funny but it's true.

Two months of moving, I've met a man whom I've never thought I will be engaged to. He is from Solomon Islands... black but not African. [He doesn't want me to call him African.] We started as friends. He is a quite guy and I am the opposite.

​But since I am very friendly [not over friendly], we became very close friends and after a month, we agreed to start dating. Oh well, one thing led to another... we are one year and 2 months now. For the first time in my life, a long-term relationship came. Not just long-term, might also be forever.

In every relationship, there are goals but in any long-term relationship, there is one common goal... "MARRIAGE".

There is FOREVER with Jesus

There is a television series here in the Philippines in ABS-CBN network entitled "Forevermore". I think this is a very interesting tv series as most of my friends are telling me "walang forever [there is no forever]" then I was like,'what? I can't relate, we don't have tv'..

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Seriously, many people believe that there is no forever. Yes, in this world... there is no such thing as forever. Your money, beautiful clothes, cool cars, brand new bags, big and magnificent mansions and houses... everything will be gone when the world ends. Even your life is not forever... we grow old and die but with Jesus Christ, there is FOREVER. Would you believe that?


Christ's death and crucifixion in the cross of Calvary 2000 years ago was for us to live in freedom and have an everlasting life in heaven. So when you believe in Jesus and had a personal relationship with Him, you will have a life that never ends - forever.